Surround Yourself With Positivity

By Carl Harris
I can’t wait for the weather to get better! The year is only 12 days old, things can only get better all round! The weather will inevitably dry up! I seem to have spent all of 2016 dealing with idiots so far! My life contains a small circle of people, who I think are great. It’s the 80:20 rule. 80% of things are going great, 20% not so great, but what determines success is how you deal with the 20%.

Sadly though you get people who come along who can make you lose your faith in humanity! But remember all people are not created equal, some are really, really stupid!

I have had to deal with another complete moron, with no intelligence, (and I mean none at all), no manners and a nasty streak clearly motivated by envy. Why people excuse their own lack of success or indeed abiity by attacking those they aspire to be, it is sad really. Learn from them, nurture them, aspire to be better, that has always been my outlook. Why people who have achieved nothing think those who have must have done so by improper means is a bizarre thought process. I suppose it is easier than admitting their own inability and short comings. This particular being is probably the most unintelligent, amateur I have come across in over the decade I have been doing this. I took some advice today and they described it as an open goal without a goal keeper. It is unfortunate that in my business we have to work on trust. In the past I would have dwelt on this and the people around me would have suffered, not any more. I do not think emotionally anymore.

What is the point of me blogging about this, the point is this. Your life is influenced by your mindset and mood. If you spend your time dealing with people who drag you down and sap positive energy from you, you will suffer.

I have learned the hard way and now I deal with these people, rationally and economically but I do not let them affect my mood in any way!

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I’m very much in to mindset and mind management. Many of you I know have read my book, I have used the power of mind management to change my life, losing over four stone in weight, getting fit and living a healthy life. However this mindset approach can be applied to all aspects of your life, including betting!

I strongly believe that mindset is the key to betting success and I will be writing a lot about it on here. I am launching a new business which will help people lose weight and manage their mindset. One book I urge you to read, if you are a regular reader you will know I have advised it before….

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The Chimp Paradox: The Mind Management Programme to Help You Achieve Success, Confidence and Happiness

The Chimp Paradox by Steve Peters, I kid you not, this book changed my life and with reference to the guy above, I would point him to read this, but sadly he wouldn’t take the advice. He could focus his energy on positively living his life and improving his business, fueled by positive energy rather than envy and hate.

You have a choice, the choice to decide everything, including the way to think!

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